Where my working moms at? How do you manage the need to keep on a schedule but still stay in the moment? I work a split shift from home 9 to 1pm and 9pm to 1 am. The hubbs works swing shift 3 to 11pm. How do u find the time to enjoy your little person with out just thinking OK he has 12 minutes to finish dinner. 5 minutes to get in Jammies and brush teeth then 5 minutes for bedtime then 20 minutes to do dishes etc and then work. How do you soak it up and watch the clock? And not resent your adorable 4yo for taking in every single nuance of eating macaroni noodles and pull your hair out? Help.